Stop Trying and Just BE !

Guys, I made this one post all in English because my inspiration just flows like that right now….

So enjoy it :) 

Here, I give you a killer tips that will boost your performance to become a real man… 

This thing happened to me by the way… 

When I still learning to be a real man and be good with woman, I also stumbled a lot and felt everything I do Is useless…

even though I get some results, but it wasn’t the result that is supposed to be or the results that I wanted… 

And then I realize something FUNDAMENTAL and a SHIFT that comes to my mind… which is, I am still “trying”… 

I AM “TRYING” to be a REAL MAN and be good with WOMAN… 

When I realize that, I changed the whole course of what I do…

which is…

I was no longer “trying”…

instead, i BECOME the REAL MAN… 

And I got RAPID RESULTS!... 

What do you mean MD ?

How can you “BE” without “TRYING TO BE” ? 

Well, let me explain this step by step…

( This WORKS not only for WOMAN, but every ASPECT of LIFE ! )

Newbie always “trying to be” by DOING things that their MENTORS do…

Expert always “BE” by “BEING” and “THINKING” like what their MENTORS do…

I give you example…

Lets say you WANT to be RICH…

What newbie ALWAYS do is they’re LOOKING for what their MENTOR is DOING, because they’re thinking that IF I DO WHAT THE RICH ARE DOING, then I shall become RICH! 

So they buy an EXPENSIVE LUXURY CAR, One X-TRA LARGE LIMO for their beloved MAIDEN, Eat expensive yet small amount of FOOD, Buy 2 LARGE APARTMENT plus a HONEYMOON SUITE, Ignore the APARTMENT they bought and stay at EXPENSIVE HOTEL, Spend tremendous amounts of money for WOMAN, And BUYING ALL what RICH people BOUGHT !...

They THINK that they will become RICH by following what RICH people DO !...

And by the time the newbie REALIZE that what the RICH people ACTUALY doing was INVESTING their money and only SPEND 10% of their money for LUXURIOUS stuff…

ITS ALREADY TO LATE FOR THE NEWBIE…

why late ? 

Because THEY’RE ALREADY BROKE !... 

Tragic eh ?

Its all because the newbie is TRYING to be RICH. 

Now lets look at what the EXPERT do !

What the expert do is BECOME RICH at that time WITHOUT even “TRYING” to be rich !...

What do you mean again xRoN? Are you out of your mind ?

How can a poor person SUDDENLY become RICH? 

What I mean is…

RICH is IN YOUR MIND! Not HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE !

So they are RICH because of their MIND is CAPABLE to make MONEY !...

and sooner or later, the money WILL FOLLOW !...

The expert have the MIND and the ATTITUDE of RICH PEOPLE which is spend only 10% for luxurious stuff, investing their money, do business and what’s mostly important is, they DON’T CARE or CRY because of FAILURE! Even though it HURTS LIKE HELL !...

Isn’t it amazing to know that you can BE RICH RIGHT NOW ?

Now, what is it got to do with WOMAN ?

Well, STOP “TRYING TO BE” GOOD with WOMAN…

and JUST BE GOOD WITH WOMAN NOW !...

Aargh !

What do you mean again MD ?

Your words are twisting my head !...

Hahaha…

if you have something you don’t understand, read again this whole post…

cuz when you GET IT, you’ll blast ahead…

Look at some of the things that the newbie “wanna be” good with woman do :

1. Newbie knows to be good with woman they need to play “hard to get” so they play it… when the woman “rejects” them or give IOD, they “pretend” to be “hard to get” for 15 minutes…

and after 15 minutes, the newbie started to be stressed cause they think by “pretending” to play “hard to get” the girl would like them! But the girl just RAN AWAY !...

and they wonder why but could find the answer…

2. Newbie knows not to call girls to often…

means that they MUST not CARE about woman that much…

so they did it ! They DON’T call girls that much IN HOPE that the girls would call him…

so the newbie DON’T CALL girls to much but they EXPECT the girls to call him !...

they FORGET the MUST NOT CARE factor…

And ofcourse when the girls don’t call him back…

they get FRUSTRATED and begin to call the girls RAPIDLY and abandon the RULE of “they MUST not CARE about woman that much” cause they think the RULE DOESN’T WORK !

3. Newbie KNOWS about being ALPHA but they don’t GET what alpha is !...

a good example of this are EVERYWHERE!...

a PUA wanna be guys always think that to be a PUA he MUST be ALPHA !...

that’s true…

but what is ALPHA? They got it wrong…

they think ALPHA is kinda BADBOY RUDE stuff… so they play it to woman !

They become more RUDE and COCKY! Become more ARROGANT and SELFISH !

And those kind of things !

I even remember one day I was chatting in an international PUA chat room and one of the “elder” told me not to ask questions and told me to FUCK OFF !...

And when I asked the people there why is he being so RUDE, the people at the chat room told me that he is ALPHA GUY !...

and ALPHA is ALWAYS do AMOG to everyone…

so better not asking anything ! 

Hmmm… was it alpha?...

OF COUSE NOT! What kind of ALPHA IS THAT?...

I was asking questions that should be answered and he told me to FUCK OFF?

Gezzz… that’s not alpha!

That’s MACHO! I’ll tell you what alpha is after this… 

4. Newbie knows that ITS OK to loose a GIRL cause he GOT MILLIONS MORE GIRLS FOR HIM!

So he MUST NOT CARE about ONE GIRL!

In pua term we call it one-itis.

So they played it! They “said” they don’t care!

But they hide the feelings of needy-ness inside them…

they NEED the girl and CANT let go!...

but to make them looks cool and alpha, the lied and tell everyone THEY DON’T NEED THE GIRL CAUSE THEY’RE NOT NEEDY!...

hmmm… keep that thoughts for long and within 5 years you’ll get stroke!... 

Many more examples but lets stick to the topic shall we?...

so what is it that the TRUE REAL MAN does?

Hmmm… check this out :

1. The Real Man knows about the “play hard to get” thing and they’re playing it as TRUE as it is… they ARE hard to get…

if the girls “rejects” them, its ok…

Real Man always said “hey, its her lost!”, he doesn’t even CARE about it!...

when newbie “pretend” to be BUSY and tell girls that they are BUSY, the Real Man is TRULY busy…

he find him self some activity that makes him busy and tell that to the girl! When the girl is NOT passing his AUDITION, he would just FORGET the girl right away…

so HE IS HARD TO GET!...

He truly is…

2. Real Man knows that he is on his own RULES!

He’s not afraid to call girls not that much…

when he’s busy, he don’t call… when he wants to, he calls…

its just that easy…

if the girl “complain” about his “rare” call, he would just explain how busy he is…

if the girl can’t take it, he release her 1st hand! and don’t CARE after…

the girl MUST understand…

or else…

bye is his answer! 

3. Real Man knows what Alpha is!...

its not TO BE MACHO!...

Alpha is LEADERSHIP skills…

Self Management Skills…

Kindness…

Problem Solving…

Mature…

Smart…

and ofcourse Damn Dangerous Attractive Sexy MAN…

that’s what Alpha is… 

Think of Kings and Warriors…

Responsible Heroes that Helps people…

Alpha is you got the Power to Help others…

not you have power to ABUSE and MOCK people up! 

4. Real Man “really” doesn’t care about LOOSING a girl!...

He is NOT NEEDY AT ALL!...

just as simple as TAKE ME or LEAVE ME!...

no whining, crying, hard feeling or cursing! He is in CONTROL of his own choosing!

He KNOWS there are lots of girls out there that WANT him…

He WANTS Woman but not NEEDING them at all…

if he got girls, they MUST pass his AUDITION or JUST BE FRIENDS… 

And guess what? HE ALWAYS GET GIRLS CONSISTANTLY!...

NO QUESTIONS ABOUT IT!... 

Interesting eh?...

think about it!... 

So if I met, listen and see someone who is very successful in business, knowledge, woman or the thing he does, I wont ask him so much about his “technique”, “system” or “how he do it”…

but rather what was he “thinking” that creates such a beautiful idea that makes him “tall” on his feet, today! 

Think of SYLAR from the movie HEROES…

he TOOK the BRAIN of other people who are special…

why is it the brain? 

Hmmm… I wonder… 

With love not only for Woman, but also for You… MD