Perlukah Menjadi PUA

Wow… wow… wow…
kenapa thread ini jadi berfokus ke PUA ?
Kenapa semua orang jadi ter-obsesi sama PUA ?...
Guys, jika kalian pikir untuk mendapatkan Wanita Idaman kalian HARUS JADI PUA, kalian SALAH !...
Justru PUA bisa menjadi racun yang menghancurkan KARAKTER kalian…
Jika kalian membaca buku “the game”, seharusnya kalian SADAR bahwa untuk BENAR-BENAR mendapatkan wanita idaman atau yang “the game” sebut HB, kalian HARUS TINGGALKAN dunia PUA…
Mari kita lihat penggalan kalimat penting di buku the game :

NATURALS Lebih Baik Dari PUA

Satu tingkat diatas PUA

Setelah mempelajari PUA secara online dan bertemu langsung dengan para PUA dari luar Indonesia, saya menyadari sesuatu yang sangat dasyat!

Saya tersadar bahwa sesungguhnya ada satu level diatas PUA. Level ini HANYA dapat dikuasai oleh orang-orang tertentu yang mempunyai “kedewasaan berfikir”.

Saya RAGU untuk menyatakan bahwa SEMUA ORANG dapat mencapai level ini karena banyak “orang dewasa” yang masih memiliki cara berfikir selayaknya orang yang baru beranjak “remaja”.

Jangankan MENCAPAI nya, MELIHAT nya saja SULIT!

Post ini bertujuan agar kita mendapatkan pencerahan serta pengelihatan tentang sebuah paradigma yang mungkin tidak pernah anda pikirkan sebelumnya...

Semakin dewasa anda, semakin anda akan mengatakan “ya, itu betul adanya!”.

Berawal dari fase NEWBIE (term PUA: AFC, Wussy) Selayaknya seorang Bayi yang mendapatkan “mainan baru”, tidak ada yang lebih menarik di pikiran seorang NEWBIE selain berkata : “Waw... GILA!

dengan menjadi PUA, Gue bisa dapet CEWE MANA AJA YANG GUE MAU!”.  

Disinilah terjadi LEDAKAN EGOISME seorang NEWBIE.

Mereka berfikir terlalu BESAR berdasarkan FANTASI tentang DUNIA PUA yang sebenarnya TIDAK SEPERTI YANG MEREKA BAYANGKAN.

Pertanyaan para Newbie terus terang membuat saya AMAT SANGAT terganggu karena kebanyakan dari mereka menanyakan pertanyaan seputar KRIMINALITAS MENTAL yang mereka harap bisa terwujud dengan menjadi PUA. 

contohnya:

- Gimana “trik mulus” bikin cewek putus sama cowonya dan jadian sama gue?

- Gimana “trik” berpacaran sama cewek yang udah tunangan?

- Gimana “trik” bikin cewek yang udah nolak gue belasan kali supaya jadi tergila-gila dan minta maaf sama gue?

Jangan harap pertanyaan seperti itu dapat dijawab dengan mudah…

Mungkin dukun santet atau dukun pelet adalah jawaban yang tepat.

Kesalahan fatal yang sering dilakukan seorang Newbie adalah Terlalu mementingkan “Fantasi” daripada “Kenyataan” (Real World) dan sering kali Menyalahkan TAKDIR jika dirinya tidak mendapatkan HASIL yang mereka inginkan.

Setelah sekian lama gagal dan gagal akhirnya seorang Newbie SADAR akan hal yang sesungguhnya untuk menjadi PUA, yaitu :

LOVE and SELF IMPROVEMENT

Guys, I made this one post all in English because my inspiration just flows like that right now….

So enjoy it
^_^

PUA Miss Conception Number 1 We don’t NEED to study the CAVE MAN to get Woman! 
This is a Wrong Direction and Concept in PUA community…
what its basically say is Woman attracted to ALPHA MALE from long time ago!...and the IDEA of it is to STUDY the CAVE MAN and KINGS that have LOTS OF WIFES and CONCUBINE! 

No.. no.. no.. it is No Longer that way… 

Some of you might also heard about the concept of “the purpose of LIFE is to SURVIVE and to REPLICATE” and we have S and R value… 

Means that to REPLICATE we must HAVE MANY GIRLS…

and to SURVIVE we MUST COMPETE EACH OTHER TO WIN THOSE GIRLS… 

From that concept, many guys now see Woman just as REPLICATION OBJECT and they COMPETE with other Guys to GET GIRLS using AMOG, TACTICS or Whatever you wanna call it!!!... 

They are MISSING a VERY IMPORTANT THING here… 

And the thing is LOVE… 

If its all about COMPETITION with other guys to get girls, 

If its all about getting girls JUST to PASS ON YOUR GENES, 

Where is the LOVE? 

Look!...

This is ALL about LOVE and SELF IMPROVEMENT… 

Not about POLITICS… 

So STOP THINKING ABOUT ALPHA MALE, CAVE MAN, EVOLUTIONARY BIOLOGY, PASSING A GOOD GENES, SURVIVAL, REPLICATION and those kinds of THINGS!!!... 

Why? 

Here’s why: 

NUMBER ONE: 

We don’t live at CAVE MAN ERA anymore…
we now life in a MODERN ERA… 

There are lots of things that have changed!...
the way Human Communicates, the way Cultural Shapes it Self, Ethical Codes, New Rules, Technology and Advancements…
Maybe you think that Woman HAVE the OLD instinctive Brain that will TRIGGER attraction by being an ALPHA MALE…

FORGET THAT!!!...

THE TRUTH IS :

Stop Trying and Just BE !

Guys, I made this one post all in English because my inspiration just flows like that right now….

So enjoy it :) 

Here, I give you a killer tips that will boost your performance to become a real man… 

This thing happened to me by the way… 

When I still learning to be a real man and be good with woman, I also stumbled a lot and felt everything I do Is useless…

even though I get some results, but it wasn’t the result that is supposed to be or the results that I wanted… 

And then I realize something FUNDAMENTAL and a SHIFT that comes to my mind… which is, I am still “trying”… 

I AM “TRYING” to be a REAL MAN and be good with WOMAN… 

When I realize that, I changed the whole course of what I do…

which is…

I was no longer “trying”…

instead, i BECOME the REAL MAN… 

And I got RAPID RESULTS!... 

What do you mean MD ?

How can you “BE” without “TRYING TO BE” ? 

Well, let me explain this step by step…

( This WORKS not only for WOMAN, but every ASPECT of LIFE ! )

Newbie always “trying to be” by DOING things that their MENTORS do…

Expert always “BE” by “BEING” and “THINKING” like what their MENTORS do…

I give you example…

Lets say you WANT to be RICH…

What newbie ALWAYS do is they’re LOOKING for what their MENTOR is DOING, because they’re thinking that IF I DO WHAT THE RICH ARE DOING, then I shall become RICH! 

So they buy an EXPENSIVE LUXURY CAR, One X-TRA LARGE LIMO for their beloved MAIDEN, Eat expensive yet small amount of FOOD, Buy 2 LARGE APARTMENT plus a HONEYMOON SUITE, Ignore the APARTMENT they bought and stay at EXPENSIVE HOTEL, Spend tremendous amounts of money for WOMAN, And BUYING ALL what RICH people BOUGHT !...

They THINK that they will become RICH by following what RICH people DO !...

And by the time the newbie REALIZE that what the RICH people ACTUALY doing was INVESTING their money and only SPEND 10% of their money for LUXURIOUS stuff…

ITS ALREADY TO LATE FOR THE NEWBIE…

why late ? 

Because THEY’RE ALREADY BROKE !... 

Tragic eh ?

Its all because the newbie is TRYING to be RICH. 

Now lets look at what the EXPERT do !

What the expert do is BECOME RICH at that time WITHOUT even “TRYING” to be rich !...

What do you mean again xRoN? Are you out of your mind ?

How can a poor person SUDDENLY become RICH? 

What I mean is…

RICH is IN YOUR MIND! Not HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE !

So they are RICH because of their MIND is CAPABLE to make MONEY !...

and sooner or later, the money WILL FOLLOW !...

The expert have the MIND and the ATTITUDE of RICH PEOPLE which is spend only 10% for luxurious stuff, investing their money, do business and what’s mostly important is, they DON’T CARE or CRY because of FAILURE! Even though it HURTS LIKE HELL !...

Isn’t it amazing to know that you can BE RICH RIGHT NOW ?

Now, what is it got to do with WOMAN ?

Well, STOP “TRYING TO BE” GOOD with WOMAN…

and JUST BE GOOD WITH WOMAN NOW !...

Aargh !

What do you mean again MD ?

Your words are twisting my head !...

Hahaha…

if you have something you don’t understand, read again this whole post…

cuz when you GET IT, you’ll blast ahead…

Look at some of the things that the newbie “wanna be” good with woman do :